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21 Things I’ve Learned from My Relationship
Being “off-the-market” for two years now has lent me some insight into my current relationship; certainly that’s obvious. Recently I’ve talked with my partner on the Urban Dater, Taylor, about our relationships and I’ve learned some things, [...continue reading at The Urban Dater]
11/15/11 -
Selfishness Shall Set You Free. A Love Story…
You don’t know what you don’t know. “Truer words…” is a phrase Mr. Jackie Summers likes to utter from time to time, when the time is right. So there I was, my buddy Alfonso and I. It was a cool and crisp November evening, also known as “just [...continue reading at The Urban Dater]
11/03/11 -
How To Break Up Like a Grown-Up
Sadly (or in my case, happily), we are not in high school anymore. You can’t text-message break up. You can’t break up over email. You can’t simply avoid returning phone calls. Well, you CAN, but you really shouldn’t if you’re old enough to [...continue reading at The Urban Dater]
10/31/11 -
It’s not me it’s you.
A couple of nights ago I went for a drink with some girlfriends. We are a fun bunch there’s no denying it. Intelligent, attractive and up for a laugh, I don’t mind saying it because it’s true. We are a catch. Of the 4 of us 2 were single and [...continue reading at The Urban Dater]
10/17/11 -
Breaking the Platinum Rule
I’ve never been the type to date and not care. If I’m going to spend my time with someone, he’s going to be a quality guy who I respect and admire, and I’m going to care about him. So when a relationship doesn’t work out, it’s hard for me [...continue reading at The Urban Dater]
09/23/11 -
Taking a Dump
So this month’s Insomnia Club post has to do with taking a dump, as-in getting dumped or dumping someone… Either way it’s something I am well-versed in. Nobody likes getting dumped by their significant other, I mean most people don’t. I can’t [...continue reading at The Urban Dater]
09/14/11 -
The Night Lust Made Me its Bitch
So I’ve been a bad, bad member of the Insomnia Club, of late. Simply put, I haven’t been pulling my weight and sometimes the subject matter we choose isn’t always the choicest for me… In other words, I was probably too intoxicated to write, [...continue reading at The Urban Dater]
08/26/11 -
5 Simple Tips to Becoming a Relationship Prize Fighter
If you’ve been in a relationship for any period of time you know that fighting is merely one component of many. It’s a fact of life. I don’t like admitting I’m wrong and let me tell you, it happens a lot! However, in a fight I generally don’t [...continue reading at The Urban Dater]
08/18/11 -
Crazy & No Effort Messages
My dear friend Franklin Slocombe & I are as some have said, jerks. Not that we are mean people or flat-out assholes but we have a low tolerance for stupid nonsense and we don’t always take the time to see things from other’s people’s perspectives. [...continue reading at The Urban Dater]
08/08/11 -
He’s a great guy but…
Have you ever found yourself saying, “He’s a great guy but…” Sometimes he doesn’t do what he says he will. Or he drinks too much, or he won’t hang out with my friends or he won’t commit. Rationalizing, making excuses; unfortunately it’s something [...continue reading at The Urban Dater]
07/14/11